Let’s talk about separation

At a time when each member of a family may feel as if they were cut loose in an expanse of a turbulent sea, the tiniest suggestion of connective threads is precious beyond words. This can be achieved through a child-inclusive mediation process which gives both parents the opportunity to focus entirely on what matters most, the child.

It is mostly suggested for families where the parents have very different ideas about what arrangements may be the most suitable for their children. However, there is a vast body of evidence-based research which indicates clearly that much more happens through this process than just clarifying the number of days spent with each parent. Because the children are seen directly, we gain a truly intimate and authentic picture of the child’s needs and wishes. If introduced sensitively, the mere act of arranging for the process can give a child a sense of being deeply cared for, and that both parents are truly interested in what they think and feel.

Most parents are very concerned about what to say regarding separation to their children or whether to say anything at all. This topic is not on anyone’s desired to-do list. However, it may just be the most important conversation you may ever have with your child. It could also be an indicator of the successful outcome of this very complicated event and one that may be remembered by your child, word for word, for many decades to come. Vera will listen to your concerns and provide you with very clear guidelines on how to address this issue, that will benefit both you and your children.